Learning to make friends

Two attractive young women having lunch at the cafe

Stepping out of my shy comfort zone to do this was sometimes quite stressful, but I discovered that it was also sometimes fun.

Shy? There’s nothing wrong with you!

Are you shy? Do you worry about what others think of you? Do you feel awkward with certain people? Authority figures? Strangers? Someone you find attractive?

How is your social life?

women seated with their legs crossed and dressed in suits

When someone invites you to go out, how do you feel? Are you excited to be going out? Or did you actually enjoy the pandemic as an excuse to say no to certain invitations?

A sneak peek into how I get my inspiration

A woman waking up

Are you feeling shy, nervous or worried?
Wondering how to feel better about your life and where you’re headed? Hoping to get inspired, but each day seems just like the last? You’re not alone.

How to go from frantic to fun?

Spare time, home alone and hobby. Happy young african american dancing

It’s the weekend! Are you ready to have fun? I’m feeling tired. How about you? We’re not machines. Sometimes we can’t just change gears and turn off the busy thoughts and immediately feel relaxed and ready to have fun – even quiet, shy fun like listening to music, doing a puzzle or reading a book.

Does life feel a bit dull and repetitive?

Do you sometimes feel like you’re just going through life but it’s become a bit boring? A bit ordinary? Like you’d love a spark of colour but you don’t know where to find it?

Do you struggle with willpower?

Fruits are natures candy. Shot of a woman preparing and eating fruit before making a smoothie.

Do you have a goal? Like to eat healthier? Or get fit? Or lose weight? But then do you get diverted from your goal, and find the distractions hard to resist?

Do you believe you can change?

Do you seem to struggle with the same frustration, again and again? Do you feel that life is like a merry-go-round, but you just can’t work out how to get off?